Where is this self everyone is referring to

Where is this self everyone is referring to?
Who is this I that everyone claims is the subject of all
lives?
Where do you live?
What is your address?
Wandering in a store house of memories creates layers
of experience that seem to create evidence of an I – a
center to this experience – place where it all meets and is
held to extol meaning or purpose
Oh, this sense of identity
Of who and what I do
We could all tell stories
and sing songs of it’s exploits; of its value
Hoping to achieve continuity by preserving identity
What is it you are trying to achieve?
Why the false front?
Is anyone home at your address?
Who is this self everyone is referring to?